Step 1: Write second polynomial below the first one. Making sure like terms are lined up.
$$ \begin{array}{lrrr} & -3a^2 & -3a & -4 \\ \color{red}{ - } & 2a^2 & -a & 1 \\ \hline \end{array} $$Step 2: Change ALL the signs in the second row.
$$ \begin{array}{lrrr} & -3a^2 & -3a & -4 \\ \color{red}{ - } & -2a^2 & a & -1 \\ \hline \end{array} $$Step 3: Combine like terms (add each column):
$$ \begin{array}{lrrr} & -3a^2 & -3a & -4 \\ \color{red}{ - } & -2a^2 & a & -1 \\ \hline & -a^2 & -4a & -3 \end{array} $$