Step 1: Write second polynomial below the first one. Making sure like terms are lined up.
$$ \begin{array}{lrrr} & 6p^2 & -4p & -9 \\ \color{red}{ - } & 5p^2 & p & -3 \\ \hline \end{array} $$Step 2: Change ALL the signs in the second row.
$$ \begin{array}{lrrr} & 6p^2 & -4p & -9 \\ \color{red}{ - } & -5p^2 & -p & 3 \\ \hline \end{array} $$Step 3: Combine like terms (add each column):
$$ \begin{array}{lrrr} & 6p^2 & -4p & -9 \\ \color{red}{ - } & -5p^2 & -p & 3 \\ \hline & 11p^2 & -3p & -12 \end{array} $$